Dear girls,

"You think because he doesn't love you that you are worthless. You think that because he doesn't want you anymore that he is right -- that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, because the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself." 

Seseorang pernah berkata kepada saya, tidak salah untuk mencintai sesuatu atau sesiapa selagi ia tidak mengganggu ketauhidan diri sendiri. Namun, jika ketiadaan ia membuatkan anda jadi gila hingga rasa macam nak mati, tinggalkan. Itu bukan cinta sayang. Itu penyakit. Dan anda sedang mencipta `berhala` lain dalam diri, yang lebih teruk dari merosak diri sendiri. 

Dan kerana anda tak pernah lagi mengganggu ketauhidan diri saya, anda selamat untuk dicintai, Totoro. ;)

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Kehadapan gadis-gadis yang banyak masa free toreh-nama-boyfriend-kat-tangan tu, only the people who knows how to love themselves knows how to love others. The healthy relationship starts from relationship with yourself, honey. So, jumpa teacher kat mana-mana roger2 la,  minta kena kerat 15 kan?  Teacher belanja makan. :)